When it comes to vacation, you can say I love it. I mean, what no Do you like to follow tradition, entertain guests, and spend quality time with family? There is a lot of magic going on in the season, especially if you are raising children. But the joy of the most wonderful time of the year It can also be accompanied by stress and anxiety.
Although I am not a person to keep busy, there are so many, compulsive, and demanding at this time of year that it can be difficult to keep calm. And the little things that don’t make me feel good can pass me by –I know you know what I mean.
If you find it difficult to stay on vacation, I can hear you! But it does not have to be this way. And basically, for the sake of the season I am wasting time and creating memories that will last a lifetime with the people you love. Therefore, let us make this holiday season our own intentional and present. And in fact, after a year and a half of stress, we can all use support to set vacation goals. So, let’s dig in.
Know Your Preferences
If you are like me, the holidays are a wonderful time to say thank you because we are already thinking about the coming year and thinking about what has happened. This is a great opportunity to excuse yourself for anything you did not do and give up what did not serve you, and to focus more on the things you appreciate. Last year we had to give up most of our regular vacation activities, and while this was heartbreaking, we were able to cut back and spend more time at home together and reunite as a family, which I want to continue.
Everyone celebrates a different holiday, so it is important to know what you are doing for the holidays. You can benefit from compassion by giving back to your community by volunteering at your food bank. Or you may spend more time with your family setting out a plan for family planning or setting goals for the next year. Whatever it is, commit yourself to it completely.
Try to Choose Power
I see that there is a lot of difficulty in making a perfect a holiday where every gift looks professionally wrapped, every meal is a Michelin Star party, and my house is decorated like a magazine cover. But holidays are not about perfection for me, they are about communication. The moment something feels like responsibility, the more I feel like I respect my strengths, needs, and values.
The most important thing I can do for myself and my family during the holidays is to save mine I like to be on top of my thoughts, then I can’t be distracted by things that don’t matter to me. When I remember that life is not always perfect and it is better if the holidays do not, I am able to wrap any gift and make any food with love and work on DIY decorations that I love.
Watch Your Presence
As a parent, my goal is to make this time memorable for my children by organizing special events, going to parties, and spending time with family. But with so much at stake, it is easy to feel overwhelmed. It is impossible to enjoy the moment when I just imagine what is coming.
Since I like to plan ahead for holidays and parties, I also like to write in pencil sometimes without being forced. These are the times when I can put my phone down and put everything inside. This holiday season helps me relax and enjoy my hobbies such as cooking on vacation and spending more time with my family. It also allows me to monitor my preferences and also helps me to stay on the moon so that I can focus on the more important things, without stress!
Although the holidays can be busy, confusing, and stressful, I hope you have found some tips to help you create a deliberate holiday season this year. Remember that your holidays are yours. Whatever you decide to do this season is up to you! I would love to hear all about how you can be on vacation, then leave a comment to let me know. Setting good goals.